You know what? I was rereading some of my old posts and I realized that some things were a bit embarrassing and stupid. Looking back, I am now thinking how was I so foolish in writing these things? I embarrass even myself, especially those post about ‘love’ or ‘infatuation’. but hey, I’m still learning here so I may be a little naive in that area. Though from what I can see, I think my little emotional affair with that guy was just pure infatuation, nothing real or concrete. It was just an abstract emotional idea that consumed me for awhile. Now that I’m thinking for myself and living for myself, I’m starting to not be effected by him too much anymore. I admit that I do like the long conversations we can hold (but it’s rare for me to find someone to talk to for so long) but I now know that these conversations will never get anywhere; they’re just words to fill up time and boredom. Like a companion, I was just lonely and seeking someone to spill my thoughts. (and I think he too) Almost anyone would have done; as long as they don’t mind my words and weird personality. But I’ve learnt to value myself after that. I’ve learnt to respect myself and my dignity, so I’ve decided that I’m no longer emotionally depending on someone else ever again. I’ve got to experience the joy myself, not some joy caused by someone else. Rely on myself to learn these things and not always take someone else’s words for truth. I need to trust in my judgments and experience. (My memory may not be the best though. haha) Anyways, my time/opportunity with this friend passed. I’m no longer going back to chase anybody. I’m just going to let things go and go with the natural flow. I’m going to live in the now and learn to love/understand myself first from now on.
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